Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda

We spend so much time looking to change the past thinking we could have done some things differently when that just wasn't possible...where our state of awareness was in those moments we did exactly what we could do.

Then we spend our present moments thinking of what we should have done when, in fact, we did everything we should have done to get us to this very moment Now.

And then we waste our imagination on what we would have done if things had been different, instead of realizing that the culmination of events were exactly what we needed and to wish things had been different is futile. We waste that God given creative energy on a past that was exactly what needed to be for our growth and we block the flow of that creative energy and the activation of our potential in our present moment. 

Everything thing that happened was exactly what needed to happen to expand our awareness and allow our soul to evolve and only when we can truly admit that we wouldn't change any of it have we reached complete acceptance of ourselves :)